Man posed as a 49ers player and convinced 26 women to hand over $1.3 million in romance scam scheme

Fraudsters will go to great lengths to con their victims, even if it means pretending to be an NFL player.

Thirty-five-year-old Daejon Labrayae Love allegedly defrauded 26 women and stole $1.3 million in an elaborate investment and romance scheme, NBC Bay Area reported.

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Love allegedly met women on social media and portrayed himself as either a member of the San Francisco 49ers or as a wealthy real estate investor living a luxury lifestyle. He would then forge romantic relationships with the victims and claim he wanted to build more wealth with them.

Love and his alleged accomplice, Taylor Jamie Chan, 18, created fictitious investment opportunities to convince victims in Oregon, Washington, Idaho, and California to buy in with their own money or by taking out a personal loan, according to the United States Attorney's Office District of Oregon .

Chan's alleged role was as Love's "investment adviser." Under this guise, he would send messages to Love encouraging him to invest in new opportunities. Love would then forward the messages to the victims, claiming it would generate large returns. Once victims either ran out of money to invest or began to ask too many questions, Love would block them.

Both men were recently arrested in Boise, Idaho. Each was charged with conspiracy to commit wire fraud and wire fraud.

Romance scams are more common than you'd think

The cautionary tale above is an example of a romance scam, specifically a " pig butchering " scam where criminals forge close relationships with victims and convince them to invest in a fake investment vehicle. The term "pig butchering" refers to the practice of fattening up the animal before slaughter.

According to the FBI's latest Internet Crime Report , there were just over 23,000 romance scam complaints made to the agency in 2025. Losses related to these kinds of scams topped $929 million. Investment scams overall were the biggest loss driver last year, at $8.6 billion.

Romance scams can be tied to investment opportunities, but can also be classic cases of a "romantic interest" claiming to be going through tough times and asking for money to make ends meet or get out of a hairy situation.